Reminiscing today. I ran across this photo of my husband taken around the time we first became a couple. He was and still is a looker. We were best of friends having both convinced ourselves that a friendship was more durable than a romance. We danced around out of arms reach for five years. Finally while on a business trip to San Francisco he pulled me into a hug and I was done staying out of his arms. I felt safe and loved. We figured out how durable our friends and lovers relationship really was over the last close to forty years. Here we are. Together still. He still makes my heart race and we keep each other feeling safe and loved. Some things have changed but the best of us is still the same.